Of Toxicity… – Adewale Sobowale

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There’s quite a few things some self– styled social media in–laws don’t know about relationships. But then, they’ll be so fast in passing one–eye judgements.

Is it one–ear?

Anyone who doesn’t wait to hear the second party’s side of the story, has done a great injustice.

Before one of the two parties in a relationship comes to the conclusion that the other party is toxic, we need to know what actually transpired.

Was it a case of seeking favor?

Once the favor(s) have been done, would the other party not become a rag to be dragged on concrete?

If the other party then feels it’s not proper. The favor seeking and favor “gotten” party may then remark the favor giver is having “a sense of entitlement”.

The other party may also be branded as being “toxic.”

Having a sense of entitlement after how many resources, how much time, etc.

I would advise that people should get the facts of the matter before judging.

Judge not that you may not be judged!

Know this and know peace!!

Watch out for the details of my experience in the upcoming book, “Victoria’s Secrets”.

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